For many, especially college students, breaking the ice with a stranger can be difficult. The first day of classes can be a person’s worst nightmare, so here are some tips that might help on those frightening yet exciting days.
First, come prepared. This may sound obvious, but many students can relate to being asked a question about themselves and not knowing how to answer it. Think ahead of time about what might be asked, what can be said and the impact it can leave on a potential friend or acquaintance. Have a few questions prepared. What would you like to know about fellow classmates?
Second, dress well. It may not cross your mind how much an outfit can affect one’s confidence. Wear something that looks good, feels good and is comfortable. An outfit by itself can be an icebreaker. Remember, what someone is wearing is enough to start a conversation.
Third, refresh your memory. When meeting new people, introducing yourself can bring up things that had been completely forgotten. Having cool information to give people can leave a great first impression. Think about interesting facts that can set you apart from everyone else.
Fourth, find a friend. There is usually at least one person in each class that can easily and comfortably be made a friend. Once that person is found, things get easier. Step
out of your comfort zone and be the one to start introductions. Odds are, everyone feels some level of anxiety when meeting someone for the first time; you are not alone.
Fifth, don’t forget to smile. First impressions can be game-changers. Whether it has been a bad day or you are secretly having a panic attack, it is important to look approachable. Insight gives a great, yet simple, piece of advice: “Be enthusiastic, whatever happens, be enthusiastic!” In other words, even if your stomach is full of butterflies, throw that fear out the window and show those pearly whites. It is a known fact that the first day of classes can be the most difficult but soon it will become comfortable and hopefully some new friends will be made in the process.
